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Bits of advice just because

  1. I don't know about you, but for me, it excites me to start over after I realized what I've been doing wrong. I want to start fresh and motivated. Give yourself some credit for realizing what was going wrong and trying to fix it immediately. 
  2. There are certain things that will happen in your life that will make you say, "Why me?" The beauty of life is its mystery. We don't need the answers for everything. 
  3. The more you talk about yourself and what you've accomplished, you're going to be an easy target for people when you've made a mistake.  
  4. Before you start looking for love, make sure you're comfortable with/by yourself. Don't step into a relationship when there are insecurities that might harm it.
  5. I get that we have one life to live and we should do whatever we want, but don't use that as an excuse every single time. Reality will punch you in the face. 
  6. You can be your own destruction and it usually happens in your mind. It's crazy to think that there are so many thoughts that go on inside our mind, good and bad, and no one really knows. 
  7. Don't beat yourself up for being judgmental. We all are, but it's up to us to change that. Would you want to be seen as someone you're not? No, then don't do it to others. Simple.
  8. There's more to life than just yours. One of my greatest mistakes is thinking the world revolved around me. I felt like my problems needed to be looked at first and be fixed immediately. There are many other things going on bigger than our problems.
  9. I will not blame anyone for being dependent on others. Sometimes it's the way you were raised, other times it's just who you are as a person, but don't let it control your future. Don't be that person who waits on others to give you your opportunities.  
  10. Don't like where you're going? Turn around. Don't like who you're becoming? Change. Don't settle and don't pretend!
  11. There are times where you just have to keep advice to yourself. Not everyone will see it the way you will. It might hurt them and turn them off. 
  12. Use your vulnerability as a strength. There have been many times where I've shown my vulnerability and people's eyes lit up. It's hard for anyone to open up and be true, so if one person starts doing it, it'll help others start too. 
  13. Remember small details about others. They'll admire you for it and it'll help you pay attention better. 
  14. Do you love others enough to stop your day for theirs? Tell your friends and family you love them and listen to their cry for help.
  15. When you're having a conversation with someone, please make it meaningful. Ask questions and learn about them.

Bits of advice just because

Bits of advice just because